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| 7/28/99 Dear Creator of this site,
After viewing your site I was mortified to see those poor little tortured souls.
These people decided to take the easy way out and have an abortion. Is it really
easy? (((((NO))))))
Finding out your pregnant at a inopportune time is never easy. Here's how I know.
June 1996, I had just graduated high school , I was with this amazing guy for 21/2 years
and I had just lost 40 lbs. It was the first summer I would wear a bikini . A week after
graduation, I hurt my wrist so my mom took me the emergency room to have x-rays.
When the nurse asked me if I was pregnant I said no, but I am sexually active. She said
well let's run a pregnancy test, to play it safe,. Well low and behold, it was positive, I
made that poor nurse run that test 3 times. I was pregnant. My initial reaction was to cry
so I did. I immediately told my
boyfriend who thought I was joking, when he saw I was serious he went into shock for
around 3 days . Until we went to a clinic for blood work and to schedule an
ultrasound. Blood work was back I was pregnant, so we scheduled an ultrasound, Up to this
point 3 weeks later, I think we were both in serious shock, up until I started vomiting
every hour on the hour. Then we realized we needed to decide. Still unsure we went for the
ultrasound, The moment we looked at the screen, and saw a little baby , with a heartbeat ,
we both started crying, we didn't know how but we were keeping this baby we made out of
love. We were 8 weeks pregnant.
The time came when we
had to tell our parents (strict catholic/Italian parents) It was not pretty but they knew
they couldn't stop us (we were 18 ) We had decided not to get married until we were ready.
We had nothing no jobs and 500.00 between the both of us. I vomited constantly for the
first 41/2 months, until I was diagnose with pre-eclampsia. I was put on bed rest for the
rest of my pregnancy. From the moment they found out about the baby we lived with my
parents. My boyfriend had received a grant to go to school for computer networking,
so he went. Also working odd jobs here and there. Because of the toximia, I went to fetal
monitoring 3 times a week , but it was worth it We got to see our baby as she grew
it was amazing. When I went into labor I had gained close to 90 lbs. The baby was a
footling breech so in my condition I was taken c-section. I was first given a spinal which
was horrible but necessary. the moment finally came , I felt two hard tugs a super
loud cry. It's a girl.....!!!!!!!!!!!
I couldn't move a muscle so her daddy showed her to me, as I was stitched back up. She was
5lbs 13 ozs and 19 inches long and really hungry, so I was constantly nursing.
The moment I looked at her I couldn't put her down(she wouldn't let me) She never
visited the nursery for the 4 day stay. I slept holding her ate holding her, etc. She has
been my universe ever since. She is almost 2 1/2 and I can't imagine my life
w/ o her in it. Her dad and I were married this past June 1999, 3 years to the date
we found out about her. It has not been easy, money is our biggest problem, but we seem to
have a high tolerance for survival. Incidentally he is still in school , and I just
graduated , I am now a certified medical assistant. He has 1 year of school
left and works full-time and is trying to start a web site designing business on the side,
with the computer we received as a wedding present. As I said before it was not easy but
our love for each other and our daughter will see us through.
Now if could just get through potty training :)
Hope to help these little babies in some way to live, but we don't really have money,
maybe we could do something else. Please let us know.
Sincerely
Rose |
| 7/26/99 Hi I am 15 and I was looking at your site because my friend just found out
that she was pregnant she is 16. She was really scared and kept on saying that she
needed to get an abortion I said no there are other choices. One day she came to my
house and I went to your site, she cried and said how could I MURDER my child. To
this day she is doing good and her parents know and support her. Thank you so much
for this site or there would be one less baby in the world.
Katie |
| 7/15/99 I just wanted to say Thank you very much and may God bless you......my
daughter was considering abortion but since finding your site and her seeing the graphics
of what happens to the baby she has chosen to keep her baby and I am very happy I just
wanted to say thank you and if saving just one baby a day is worth it thank you again a
waiting Grandma may God bless and keep you thanks
Candice |
| 6/21/99 I had just had a baby on my 19th birthday, a
little boy. I was married, but I wasn't happy. About four months later I
realized I was pregnant again. I didn't want to have it. My husband didn't
want me to have it. I called up a lot of places. I even made an appointment to
terminate the pregnancy. He worked in a mailroom at the time, and a pamphlet came
thru the mail. I don't know why he brought it home. I'm just glad he did. It
had a picture of aborted babies in garbage bags. I'll never forget it. I swear
this is true. I caressed my stomach and I told my baby that it was safe. That
"mommy will protect you."
He's nine years old now. His name is Christopher. He was just honored at
awards night at school. I'm so proud!!! That's my
baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm crying as I write this. I came so close.
Ton2--@---.com |
6/18/99
I am 19 years old, I found out that I was pregnant two months before my 18 birthday.
I never once thought of abortion because of the fact that I had seen some pictures years
before and because I believe that every child has a right to live. I didn't have it
easy though, my boyfriend of 2 years decided he couldn't handle it and left me, and my
parents weren't too thrilled either. Now that my son is here and I look at those pictures
it hits home even more than it did years ago. The pictures that I looked at brought me to
tears thinking about my son and the knowledge that those babies will never have the chance
to live and grow. A child is a precious gift that no one can ever take from you but if you
decide to kill an innocent baby it can also never be replaced. The teenagers who do
happen to get pregnant need to not be so selfish and thinking about themselves but also
think about that child who never asked to be born. I am glad there is a site like
yours, there is nothing wrong with it you are just letting people know the cold, hard
truth of it all. And that is what they need to know. I know my son is the greatest
thing that has ever happened to me and although it happened at the wrong time with the
wrong person I am truly blessed to have the opportunity to have him in my life. I just
wanted to tell you that your site is an eye-opener and I see nothing wrong with it. Maybe
it will open others eyes before the make a mistake that cannot be fixed.
Becky |
| 6/8/99 I
recently visited your web site and found it very interesting. I became pregnant and
I'm only 17. I was considering abortion until I saw those awful pictures. I
really thought I was going to puke~ they affected me a lot, and I just wanted to let you
know, that you saved a life here in Ohio, thanx.
smash4348 |
| 5/14/99 I just wanted you to know that 2
1/2 years ago my boyfriend and I decided not to have an abortion after about a week of
debates. We decided to keep the baby. But we made the mistake of going to an abortion
clinic to have the pregnancy test after the home one came out positive (because it was
free and we were both students). After we decided to keep the baby, I noticed the abortion
clinic "counselors" calling me all of the time. THEY DO NOT CARE!! They tried to
convince me that keeping the baby was wrong and that it would ruin my life. Then I started
to question everything again. I ran across your website at my boyfriend's house while he
was in the shower getting ready to visit the abortion clinic again. Thank you is all I can
say. We are now married and have a son named Tristan who is 2 1/2 years old and a daughter
named Kiernan who is 1. We are very happy and doing fine. Having an abortion would have
ruined my life. I thank you every day of my life and hope that others will see the same
things that I did.
Thank you again,
Heather |
| 4/29/99 To whom it may concern
l was reading your web site last night and I was very impressed and disgusted with it!
The pictures made me sick to my stomach, but it also made me think of the reality of an
abortion
My daughter is almost three months old I call her my miracle baby. Let me tell you why.
When I found out that I was pregnant, l was devastated. I had not planned on having a baby
until I was out of college and well into my career. My boyfriend and I were in a point in
our lives, which a baby did not fit into. 'We talked it over a lot, and decided that it
would be best to have an abortion. I was always against it and so was he. I always thought
badly of people who would kill an innocent child. But I have to say, I didn't feel that
way when it happened to me. I made the appointment, and went down to the clinic. I paid
and went to through the horrible procedure of getting ready to have an abortion. I had to
go in a room filled with other girls, some crying. I felt so ashamed and confused. I got
undressed and put on that awful gown and booties.
Then, I went and had my blood taken. They did an ultrasound and the nurse told me not
to look. I just started to cry. l was put into the operating room and the doctors came in
to do it, I freaked out jumped up and got the hell of there! I just didnt feel right
about what I was doing. I am married now and doing great. My life didn't end just because
I had a baby. I look at my daughter, and cry, when I think that I almost killed her. She
is so innocent, and beautiful. I can't imagine my life without my angel baby. My husband
is crazy about her! I know in my heart that I would have regretted it. I feel very
fortunate that I am able to bring a life into this world. I think that is something a lot
of people take for granted!
Michelle C. |
| 4/28/99 Dear
Abortion TV,
I am only 15 years old and I just found out 3 days ago that I was
pregnant. My boyfriend is 17 years old and he said if I did not have an abortion that he
would leave me. Yesterday we looked up facts on abortion and we looked at your website. We
looked at the videos to. After we looked all through your website, we decided not to have
an abortion. We decided that there are to many people in this world that would be glad to
adopt a child. So, we are giving it up for adoption, and he is not going to leave me.
THANK YOU,
Laura and John |
| 4/19/99 Abortion
TV:
I want to thank you for your site and pictures. I am a
seventeen year old who is 5 weeks pregnant and was considering abortion. My
boyfriend was really trying to push my into it when I came across this site and showed
him. He now sides with me. We have decided to have the baby and we may give it up
for adoption, but aren't sure. There is also a chance that we will raise our child.
We have our parents support after showing them the pictures. We aren't quite
sure yet - but we know one thing- this pregnancy will not end in abortion thanks to
you!!!!!
Many Thanks,
Ginger |
| 4/8/99
Well I
am a 15 ,and from California . well in school we have to a paper
on an topic that we would like to learn more about . Well not to long ago my brother got
my sister in law pregnant and she had an abortion , I couldn't understand why she would
want to kill her own baby girl , I hated her for so long for doing that . You see the
reason for me telling you is this is I had to with her to she my not yet born niece get
torn to shreds . I came to your site reading all the info. you give to people , that
helped me under stand why and I can see why . Well I now have a 5 month year old nephew
that I love so much and the only reason he is here today is because I showed my sister in
law this web site and it changed her mind on having another abortion . and you have
given me so much info . for my paper . SO I would like to thank u and say you helped me
through a lot. PLEASE DON'T PUT MY NAME IN thank u
Thank u all so much for having this site , GOD BLESS YOU ALL !!!!!!!
Anonymous |
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| 3/3/99 This
is a picture of our son, Shannon. This snapshot was taken at my mom's wedding on January
2, 1999. When I found out that I was pregnant, I was thoroughly disgusted. I already had
two daughters from a previous marriage, and was within the mere act of selecting classes
before starting college Scott and I had discussed children, and I had told him in no
uncertain terms that if he wanted a child of his own, then I wasn't the woman for him. I
was 21, and the only reason my tubes hadn't been tied after the birth of my second
daughter was that the hospital in which my OB-GYN practiced was a Catholic hospital.Our
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the 3rd child; or 2. only after a woman had reached the age of 30. I had been on the pill
for almost 3 years, but as an added precaution we used two methods of over-the-counter
birth control. My first reaction was shock. The second was anger. My husband and I were
engaged, and saving up for a bigger apartment. There was no question that we were going to
be married, regardless of the circumstances, but I didn't want another baby period, and my
husband wasn't ready financially or emotionally to become a father to a third child. (I
already had two...he had none of his own.) We considered abortion, going so far as to schedule an
appointment at a clinic. We had the money, and we felt it was right. Or we thought we did.
Two days before I was scheduled, we both had the same dream. He was almost 45 minutes
away, spending the night at his parents' house because his dad had taken ill, but we had
the same dream. In it, all we could see was the light in an operating room. (He wasn't
sure, but I knew because I'd had c-sections with both of my girls.) Neither of us had any
knowledge of anyone else in the room, and neither of us felt as though we were even IN the
room. All we saw was the light. Then, all of a sudden, there was a sound, like a vacuum
cleaner, and it droned on and on. After about 30 seconds, the sound of babies crying came.
Not just one baby, but more like a nursery full. Then the light went out, and hundreds of
empty hospital cribs, the plastic kind, lined up where the light had been. I woke up in a
cold sweat, and walked into the living room to the phone. Before I could pick it up, it
rang. It was Scott, and he told me image for image the dream I'd just had.
That was the end of our abortion debate. We knew then that no matter how we felt, God
intended for our child to see his birth. I was living in a rent-set-by-income apartment,
and there was no way we could move AND buy the things that a baby needs. I'd long since
gotten rid of all the girls' things, giving them to family members and neighbors who were
pregnant. So we went on. We accepted the fact that we were going to have this baby, and by
the time he was born, we knew that he was going to be a joy. We were right. He was born
October 12th, 1992. He's in kindergarten now. Last year, Shannon was diagnosed as having
Pervasive Developmental Disorder-Not Otherwise Specified, but we and his teachers are
ready to throw that out the window. I have never seen a child more full of life and with
such an imagination. He reads on a 4th grade level, does basic math, has the most
unbelievable memory. And he is, just as all of our kids are, a joy. We just decided that
God saw us, and made up His mind that Shannon needed US to be his parents. God gave him to
us because He trusted us with him.
I'm not uneducated on the facts about abortion. I know what they are, how they're done,
what the procedures used do to a fetus. I saw the pictures before I ever found this web
site. If you've had an abortion in the past, God still loves you. He always has, and He
always will. If you're considering an abortion, call someone. There are places, like one
that I know of for sure in Lexington, KY, that will help you come to a decision. This
place in Lexington, if you've been thrown out of your house or are in an abusive
relationship,or if you just have no where to turn, will even see to it that you get
medical care and help you with the birth, then, if you decide to give the baby to another
family, they'll help you get in touch with a legal authority so that it's done correctly.
If you decide to keep your baby, the people there will assist you with child care while
you take classes or get job training, or WORK, until you get on your feet. Support
programs like these. It may be your daughter who needs one next. And TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN
ABOUT SEX....DON'T LET THEM LEARN IT THE HARD WAY. Thanks for listening.
Scott and Stacey Amos |
| February 13, 1999 I am 21 and pregnant with my
fourth child. I was considering abortion until I saw many of the web sites showing
pictures of what I now consider murdered children. I am only 14 weeks pregnant right now
but I will gladly send you a picture with my story...there is much more to it...my
children's father and I went to the abortion clinic even after I saw the pictures.
It has been a real ordeal but in my heart I feel that I have chosen the best
answer...life...God has given me this life for a reason.
Denay |
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