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| 10/3/99 1st let me thank all the young women out there who have chosen
life!! My prayers go out for you to have continued strength and blessings. My
wife and I over 5 years ago found out we were pregnant. At that time we weren't
married, 19yrs old and didn't have a stable financial life to support a child. My
father wanted to pay my wife to abort the child. I praise God every day that He gave
us the strength to say NO to abortion. Nine months latter we had a little boy and 6
months latter we married. I won't lie and say it's been easy, but it certainly isn't
the awful life
everyone said it would be. We're now expecting our third child and the 1st boy is
now 5 and in kindergarten. I couldn't imagine my life without him. My wife and
I aren't rich and we didn't finish college yet, but all good things come to those who wait
and have faith in God. I don't care if we ever live up to "what could have been"
as some people say. Yes the bills are tight and we have to stay up late with a sick
children and change dirty diapers while studying, but nothing is as powerful or priceless
as a 5 year old boy who looks up at you and says while winking... "Dad I love
you." Those few words will pierce your heart and fill your soul with love and a
realization that, yeah, you did the right thing. Men... If you've been "man
enough" to get a girl pregnant be a real man and stick by her, support her in
pro-life measures whether it be keeping the baby or opting for adoption. Support
her, LOVE her and treasure her, for she is the mother of your future child. God Bless and
may Christs ever loving peace be with all those who read this.
-Ryan
"I can do all things through Him who strengthens me." Phil. 4:13 |
| 9/24/99 Abortion TV,
My name is Kristen and I am 16 years old. A year ago I found out I was pregnant. The
father was no longer a part of my life and I was absolutely terrified. But never once did
abortion cross my mind.
At first I was positive that I would keep the baby with me and I would somehow manage
school, a job, and a baby. My mother had my brother when she was 16 and quickly woke me up
to the harshness of teen pregnancy and parenthood. I give credit to those teen mothers
that make it, but many teens do not.
When I was 5 months pregnant I decided to give my baby up for adoption. I couldn't have
made a better choice. My baby has a wonderful life and I get to see her if I want to. And
I couldn't even start to explain the absolute joy on the new family. They were all so very
happy. The couple who adopted my little girl had been trying to have a child for almost 20
years.
I have always been anti-abortion. I feel that it is inhumane and sickening. The only
time an abortion should be considered is if it is a rape or incest baby, or if the
mother’s life is in great danger due to medical reasons. But I know for a fact I
would have given my life for my daughter.
I hope that someday the "people" who really can make a difference will wake
up to this issue and re-discuss it. Women are finally getting their rights, but since when
do we have the right to play "God" and take innocent lives because of our own
responsibility. You don't want kids, don't have sex. But if you do make the mistake I did
and get pregnant, do yourself, the baby, and a loving family a favor and choose adoption,
not abortion.
Thank you for letting me say my peace. I really wish that a lot more people could hear
my opinion, especially teens. Who knows, it could save a life.
Sincerely,
Kristen, MI |
| 9/17/99 I
wanted to let you know that your website saved the life of a unborn child 5 days
ago. I even drove to the abortion clinic with money in hand. About $1500 to
be exact. Because I was so far along, it was going to be a 2 day procedure. I
had to take off my clothes and put on a gown. I laid on the table and they were
ready to start the procedure. The Doctor first had to do
an ultrasound to determine the size and placement of the unborn baby. He pressed so
hard. My baby KICKED. It was then I knew it was ALIVE. I kindly sat up
and canceled the procedure. They kept part of my money, but it was a small price to
pay for saving my baby. I've decided to give my baby up for adoption, and it's
already in the process. I know now that my child will have a safe and happy home.
Thank you.
Live---@AOL.com |
| 9/14/99 I was
already a single mother of two after the father turned to drugs. I had a new boyfriend and
was careful, but somehow became pregnant again. My boyfriend never asked me what I wanted
,just told me I should make an appointment. I called a clinic but they wanted $500 so I
called another.
The line was busy [which I later learned was extremely unusual] and I realized this was
not what I wanted. My boyfriend continued pressuring me to abort, saying I was an
incompetent mother and he didn't want his child brought up around my other
childrens'
father. I was under extreme stress but didn't give in. He left me at eight months
pregnant. I had a beautiful daughter. To make a long story short, we later got back
together. When my daughter was eight months, he assaulted me and I knew I had to leave the
relationship. This was complicated by the fact that I shortly found out I was pregnant
again. I knew no one would be supportive this time. It was the darkest, most difficult
time in the world, because I really didn't think I had the strength, physically or
emotionally to go through with another baby. So I began to pray for that strength. I
decided to not abort the baby, it just felt so wrong, though one of my doctors suggested
it, and seemed quite angry when I didn't agree. I named my only son "Jaden"
because it means "God has Heard." He truly did hear my prayers because I found
strength I never knew I had. I am raising my four children alone and my message is, I was
an emotional mess through my pregnancies, and yet now I feel so blessed to have these
children, my life is total joy, and I can always rest assured that life was the best
choice.
Karen D. |
| 9/14/99 Hi
It was my sister who told me about this page because she was looking into abortion for
her daughter who had become pregnant at 17. After seeing your page she soon changed her
mind :).
I'm happy because I've always been against abortion but its very hard to get people to
understand why. Doctors tell these young girls it`s nothing, just cells and blood they are
getting rid of nothing more than a bad period .
If anyone should be held responsible for abortions it should be the Doctors not the
girls. They have no idea what they are doing and they believe what the Doctor tells them.
Your page educates people before they make the biggest mistake of there lives, so keep
up the good work .I'm not a religious person but I believe in God ,and I know he hears the
screams of every aborted baby on this earth and he cries the tears they cant .
PS: My boyfriend and his mother tried to push me to have one , I said " I don't
care if the baby is born blind, deaf, mute , or disabled everyone has a right to live
", . He is now my husband and a father of 2 boys , and he's happy that I didn't
listen to him or his mother .
Thank you for letting me have my say .
From Amber |
| 9/13/99 Goodies..from Chile. Hi, my name is Daniel Rios, I'm 21, and I'm from
Chile, it's in south america, recently I was in their it pages, looking for help, a very
near friend is pregnant, and she thought that abortion was the only answer too her
problem, she is a very closed person, and she never accept opinions when she thinks that
this in the correct thing, but she accepts to listen my opinions, I use a lot internet to
find help, and I found your page, it was a fantastic help..really... I invite her to my
house and I showed you page.. and together we saw all the pages... the result?..
awesome.. she decides to continue their pregnancy and tell it to his parents.
and now she is very happy!!!... and so am I.. she is here with me.. seeing like I write
this email. thanks!!.. a lot!!!.
Daniel Rios
"can you put a price on peace?" |
| 8/30/99 Dear Abortion TV:
Almost a year and a half ago, I got involved with a man. I always knew that I would
never be able to go through with an abortion, but after I got pregnant he was very adamant
that I research the subject before I refuse. He wanted to go on with his life... he
was involved with another woman, and couldn't bring himself to tell her nor his family.
He printed documents and basic facts of the procedure and handed them to me to make
me lean towards abortion. He made me believe that if I didn't, it would ruin his
life. He said I needed to be strong to go through with it. On the other hand,
if I did have an abortion then it was my life I would be ruining (as well as the life of
an innocent child). I was so ashamed of myself that I told him I would research this
on my own. When I came across this site, I could do nothing but cry and feel dirty.
Dirty that I could even allow myself to believe for one moment that I could
possibly go through with an abortion. The
paperwork he gave me told nothing of how the women felt during and after the abortion, or
how they felt years down the line. Guilt, blame, shame... all that I would not be
able to overcome had I gone through with this. I realized that to be strong is to
face up to your responsibilities, not find an easy way out. It was my fault that I
didn't take the proper precautions in the first place, I wasn't going to give up a life
because of that mistake.
And who's to say it's a mistake? Everyday I look at my Angel Abby and thank the Lord
that he gave me the strength to do what I believed and say 'no'.
I have never regretted my decision, even though I am a
single parent raising a child on my own. The father married the other woman
when I was two and a half months pregnant. He is still a big part of her life, but
noone that I am going to rely on. I'm sure that he regrets now what he suggested
then. But he was only looking out for himself. And now I need to look out for
myself and my child. No matter what happens, I'll never regret my precious daughter
nor the decisions I've made. Here is a picture of my little one - now, who could
ever want to abort this beautiful child??BridgetM |
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| 8/24/99 I was recently thinking about getting an abortion until a
girlfriend of mine told me to come to your site and check it out first...coming into your
site I read some stories. Then went to look at the pictures of aborted children and began
to cry uncontrollably. Then read how aborted fetuses are sold, and was horrified. Although
I was unable to continue to research the rest of your site, I have your site to thank for
(not) making the biggest mistake of my life and getting an abortion. I am now looking into
adoption. I now will tell all those I come across that are thinking about about your site.
Sincerely yours,
Carolyn |
| 8/3/99 I came across your website for
information. And I most certainly received it. I have one child (two years old).
He is my heart and soul. I contemplated having an abortion with him. I
went all the way to the clinic and proceeded with the preparations. However, I when
I was given the
sonogram, I asked to see my child living and breathing through me. I was 11 weeks
pregnant. I saw my son in the screen kicking and moving his arms! I could not
believe it. At that point, I asked for my money back (I only could get a portion),
and I left that clinic and did not look back. At that time, I was still in college,
away from home without any family nearby, the father of the baby and I were in a
relationship, but nowhere near marriage, my family was strict about having kids out of
wedlock, etc. I prayed each and every night for guidance because I did not know what
to do. When I finally told my parents, they told me that they did not want me to
have a
child and they would not be a part of the child's life - basically they turned their backs
on me. At the very same time, my boyfriend left me as well. I was so alone!
I cried and cried but continued to pray. I decided that I would raise a child
on my own. I was not going to be the first
single parent in the world, nor would I be the last. I continued school at a large
and very popular university, eventually giving birth to my son my junior year, I raised
him on my own throughout college, which led to my college graduation AND I graduated ON
TIME! My parents came around and now they love my son more than anything. They
were very proud of their daughter
and so were many other people. I can not imagine life with out him. His father
and I are not together, nor is he in my son's life. I now have a great loving man in
my life who has accepted my son as his own. Now we are having a child of our own.
I wanted to tell the women who are considering abortions that just because a baby
would "ruin her life because it is not in her plan" or the man is no longer in
her life... YOU CAN DO IT! I did it. I am an excellent mother, I have an
excellent career and future, I make great money in the computer industry, and I did this
with the grace of God. There is power in prayer. Never give up.
Sincerely,
A Believer in you |
| 8/2/99 Dear AbortionTV,
I am 17 years old and my son will be born any day now. I was
looking at the pictures of abortions and the videos on them and I can't stop crying.
My now ex boyfriend once told me if he found out sooner that I was pregnant with
his son, I would have had an abortion. We haven't been together since but I hope he
finds the love in his heart for our unborn child after I show him the
pictures of abortions. I'm very against it and I wouldn't have had one if my son was
terribly deformed. I just hope other people feel that there are other ways to go by
not having the baby. You don't have to murder it. I'm a strong person cuz I
went the whole pregnancy by myself with the father who doesn't care and I still kept my
child, and I fell in love with him the day I found out I was pregnant. And when I
feel him moving inside of me, the feeling's non-replaceable. Thank you for being on
my side by saying abortion's wrong and trying to save unwanted babies.
Everyone has the chance to live.
Thanks again,
Carolyn and Lil' Isaiah (not yet here) |
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