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| 2/8/00 I just had to sit down and take a minute to say
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SITE! I can only imagine the lives it has changed and hopefully saved.
I understand what all of these girls are going through. I got pregnant when I was 17 and
thank god abortion never crossed my mind. A friends mom had 2 abortions in her teenage
years and when we were 16 she told us that all she could ever dream or think about was one
day going to heaven and seeing 2 little babies reaching out to her asking
 mama, why did you
kill us. I have never supported abortion but that clinched the deal for me.
I delivered twin boys a week after I turned 18 and thank god I had such
a supportive family and a wonderful church to support me. I was a single mom for the
first 9 months until god gave me a wonderful husband, I have attached a picture of my now
18 month old unaborted angels.
We are now expecting another baby and couldn't be happier, then in a
few years we are considering adoption. I am here if there is anything I can do to help the
fight for lives or anyone who needs support, I am in tears for the poor babies and have
been for over an hour. I cant bring myself to look at the abortion tapes yet, maybe
someday I can, I just cant bear to see the poor
darlings suffering.
Stephanie Welsh
proud mommy to Jacob and Joshua born 8/7/98
and wife to LCPL Kevin P Welsh, Jr.
" The decision to have a child is to accept the fact that your heart will
forever walk outside of your body''
Stephanie, thanks for the inspirational
letter. We're also posting it at "Babies Not Slaughtered."
AbortionTV |
| 2/8/00 Hello I was sixteen when I decided to have my son,
he is now three months old and I do not know what my life would be like without him.
I know a couple of women who have had abortions and they end up regretting it for
the rest of their lives. I am now seventeen and fixing to finish high school this
year, I already have so many colleges looking at me. Even if you have a baby you can
still have a life. But, if you are still considering abortion please do not consider
adoption at least your baby will have a chance.
Laura C. |
| 2/5/00 I was 20 at the time and had only been married for 6
months. We had just got our own place. We were having so much fun going out and partying,
and had also just got our new truck.
I found out I was pregnant when I took a home test...I called my
husband at work and told him, the response I got was hollering and cussing. The first
thing he said when he got home was abortion, I couldn't believe he even mentioned
that. After a few weeks he almost had me convinced.
I read some about abortion but there isn't much out there, nothing that
really shows the truth! I know that if I would have seen this site that I wouldn't have
thought about it as much as I did.
If there are any women out there who don't know what to do ..please trust me..don't
kill your baby because you can't afford it or you aren't ready( The baby didn't ask for
this). Don't have an abortion because your husband or boyfriend says too. It will be the
biggest mistake you ever make!
I had thought about it but I credit the lord for my decision. I did some praying
and came to the conclusion that this child didn't ask for this and it deserves a chance to
live and be loved. If you cant keep this baby don't KILL it give it to someone who can
love it and care for it. I made my husband look and read this site and he felt so BAD, he
couldn't believe he wanted me to do this to our little angel. He was born on Dec 28th 1999
and if you women could feel what it feels like to be a mom you would never even
consider Abortion.
If I can help with this web site in any way just let me know!
This site is the best!!!!!!!.
Kellie, Chris and my gorgeous son
Christian (born Dec 28th 1999) |
| 1/31/00 My first grandchild was born when my daughter was 17
and I was 38. Much too young everyone says. Aubrey has been the love of
a lot of
people's lives. A lot of people didn't "think" she should be here until
they saw her. She is beautiful and full of life. She is loved so
much. She is 15 months old and her almost 19 year old mother is
pregnant
again. How can we possible afford
this again? Everyone, including myself, has mentioned abortion. I am ashamed
of myself. Until I saw those horrifying pictures and heard the live abortions,
sucking the life out of those innocent children. Our next grandchild WILL BE
BORN! I brought my daughter in here to watch and she said she had no idea that
well-formed children could be murdered like this. We will love and take care of our
new grandchild and help my daughter and we will get through this. It will be hard I
know, but it will be worth it all when I see my daughter hold that precious baby in
her arms! I want to yell and tell you THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SITE, THANK
YOU FOR EDUCATING US BEFORE WE MADE SUCH A BAD MISTAKE! THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE WHEN
EVERYBODY ELSE IS SAYING " WELL YOU KNOW SHE DOESN'T NEED ANOTHER BABY."
HOW CAN THEY POSSIBLY KNOW WHAT GOD WANTS FOR US! DON'T EVER TELL SOMEONE
THAT THEY NEED AN ABORTION, BECAUSE THEY JUST MIGHT LISTEN.
Asrg---@aol.com |
| 1/27/00 Hello, I am a 19 year old female, and when I was 16 I became pregnant. I
gave birth to a beautiful baby boy, who is now 2 years old. When I found out I was
pregnant with him, I couldn't imagine having an abortion. I was always against it. Now I
live with my son and my fiancée ( his father ). Recently I discovered that I am pregnant
again. We decided on abortion, he is unemployed and so am I. We are having a hard
time raising our son as it is. If we bring another child into our life, it will be
virtually impossible to care for it. I have considered adoption, and just don't think I
could carry a child for so long and just give it up. However, after seeing your site, it
has opened my eyes to the reality of abortion. I never realized it was so brutal, and
horrifying. I also never realized the risks involved. I went to school to become a medical
assistant, and never learned of the cruel nature of this act. I now realize that I am
being selfish by thinking about taking my child's life. I just wanted to write and thank
you for making your website available, it has opened my eyes so much, and made me realize
just how precious life really is.
Amanda A. |
| 1/14/99 Thank you for putting up this very incredible site. I was in the
process of having an abortion, but now looking at this site has totally changed my mind.
I felt that if I were to have an adoption I would not be able to live knowing that
my child is somewhere out there. Now that I viewed testimonies and watched videos I
would not be able to live knowing that I am a murdered,
again thank you, you have help me out so much.
Ever grateful, Rosy |
| 1/8/00 I posted on your site several months at the
"Letters from Women Who've had Abortions," just after our newborn son had
arrived home. He came home almost nine years to the month of my abortion, and six years
after the hysterectomy it resulted in. We adopted him at birth and thank God everyday for
the privilege and honor of having this wonderful little angel in our lives.
 We are
thankful and grateful to his birth mother for choosing life and giving us the opportunity
to adopt him. Since I last wrote you, we've begun the process of adopting an 18 month old
baby girl too. We will probably adopt again in a year or two. More than anything, I know
that adoption can be a positive outcome for a crisis pregnancy. I am glad this site exists
and can attest to the horrible realities of abortion in our culture. I hope the
pictures on your site will encourage those would would otherwise choose abortion to think
of adoption, or parenting their children. There are so many families waiting to adopt
children and the myths about adoption are promoted by the abortion industry. Adoption can
work, and I would like to say thank you for presenting it as a positive
alternative to abortion.
Lorraine |
| 12/27/99 Hello
There,
I wanted to post a letter on your web page and couldn't figure out
how. Well I decided to email you guys. I am 2 months pregnant. I was considering an
abortion. I have 3 kids and I am 25. I am divorced and got pregnant from a guy I was
seeing. Well it wasn't plan nor was I prepared. Well the father isn't happy and has walked
out on me. My ex husband (god bless) him has helped me so much. I was thinking of getting
an abortion until I decided to look at some site on the net about abortion. I must admit I
never excepted this from a site. I cried and cried from the pictures. I wouldn't say this
is a bad site, but a site I would recommend to someone before they got an abortion. This
has changed my mind completely. If the father is not happy or never comes around, then
that's his own loss. My baby will be the best it can be and I will give all I can to this
child. I want to thank you for giving me an insight on abortion. I am glad I didn't get an
abortion then find this site.
No matter how bad the pictures are. If they save one
child's life then God Bless this site. Thank you for the insight that no one else would
give. God bless you all
Sincerely.
P.M. |
| 12/15/99 After a long and hard decision I had decided to have
an abortion. My husband and I have one child already and the "reality"
really hit us on having another. After viewing this web site I am SHOCKED and
disgusted how this S*** is LEGAL??? I am amazed oh my God!! You and Abortion
TV have saved the life of my child and made me and my husband 100% Pro Life! This is
amazing oh my God! I could never in my wildest dreams have this done. Thank
you on behalf of the Hermanski family!!! This is the best web site and the most
informative EVER!!!!
Bab--@uswest.net |
12/3/99
My life changed drastically, once again, about two years ago. My wife told me that she was
pregnant. With our four kids growing up, we looked forward to the day when we can
spend time together.
We were devastated. Shocked and upset. At the age of 44, I did not want to change diapers
and warm bottles again. The wife was heartsick. The pain and energy to have another
child is beyond any mans comprehension.
We discussed abortion. I have very mixed emotions about abortion. For weeks, we
tugged at the issue. We should. We cannot. We need to. What about the other kids?
What about the expenses? What about child care?
What an agonizing decision and painful road to venture. It was not that clear cut
for us. I called Plan Parenthood to get information. Still she was undecided. Again
back and forth. One day I said honey, you need to make a decision. Make a decision and we
will never look back.
A few days later she called me and said she cannot have an abortion. It is not our
decision she said. We cannot destroy a life of a child for reasons of economics and
inconvenience. It is not the baby's fault. We cannot have this child because it is a
burden on us. It is just simply wrong. She has a right to be born. I said ok then let's do
and never look back.
The time came to have the child. It was a beautiful little girl. As the weeks and the
months go by I sit with this gorgeous blue eyed blond hair little girl grasping at life.
To eat. To walk. To grab her blanket and dig her face into it when she is tired. Rubbing
her eyes when she is sleepy. Peaking around the corner of her crib when I am coming
up the stairs. Pulling on my pant legs when she wants me to pick her up. Patting me
on the back when she is content.
I am now convinced that abortion is not a choice. It is not our decision as human beings
to destroy the life a child. And that fetus is a child. I am convinced that this is an
evil choice that has been marketed upon society by our politicians and the marketing
department over at Planned Parenthood and they have fostered this notion that this blob of
tissue is not life.
Every time I look into the eyes of my little girl I feel a surge of guilt that I am having
a difficult time dealing with and that we had the power to decide if this child live or
dies. Simply put, it is wrong!
I also asked those who support abortion to explain to me how I can handle this guilt,
because you say that women should have a choice? How do you suggest that those who
have gone down this road deal with the guilt of having to deal with this sort of guilt?
Doesn't is seem to be against the law of nature for a female to abort it's offspring?
I am not writing this letter for a political statement but as a letter to all those who
may be faced with this decision.
By the grace of God may we be forgiven for a wrong that we almost committed. Please
forgive us Jennifer. We love you.
Signed,
Michael A. DuRocher |
| 12/2/99 Thank you for your informative web page. After
seeing the "forbidden picture", there is no way for me to go through with an
abortion. You just saved my child's life.
MS |
| 11/22/99 Dear Editors,
This is not necessarily directed at you, but to all those people out there in
Cyberspace or in the real world, who are totally disgusted and appalled with the subject
matter of this Website- - -
To them I say "Tough S---" - - - To you the Editors of this fine site I say
"Kudos Kudos Kudos, you will receive some money !!!"
If those of you who are disgusted by what you see, think of how it feels to the little
humans who are having their arms and legs sucked off. Maybe you should try it sometime. Go
ahead, have someone stick a scissors in the back of your skull and vacuum out your brains
into a little steel dish. Tell us all how it feels. Tell all your baby killing friends to
do the same.
I am the father of a son who was almost killed before he was born. I was the stupid
one, I was the cowardly one, I was the wimp. I wanted my child to die. It was my 17
year old girlfriend who set me straight. She told me in no uncertain terms that the child
inside of her was never going to be "gotten rid of", was never going to die, or
else I myself would be history, and of course a permanent attachment to my salary in the
future and without the benefit of even seeing what we had brought forth into this world.
It was that moment that I sobered up and became a man. Nothing like getting hit in the
head with a rock to make one come to his senses. I was what I was never before, a
father. Right at that moment. Then 7 months later I saw what my son looked like. Hey, he
looked like me ! And I thought, "and this is what I wanted to die ?" "I
should be horsewhipped."
So, I say now to those men who are feeling wimpy at the thought of being a father,
"get over it and be a man", and to those young moms who think they just can't
have this baby at this time in their life, guess what, "you already HAVE a baby, your
baby is here, is now, is inside of you. You are a mom, NOW. Not in 7 months. NOW. Time to
hit the baby clothes sales at your favorite store.
I thank my girlfriend for the courage she showed at a time when courage is easy to say
but hard to live. She is a fine mother. My son is now 24, +9 months, and he still looks
like me. Handsome as ever. This Website has already saved one child from the
butcher's scissors and because of just that one life saved nothing that can be said or
done by cowardly baby killers will silence the truth of its pages.
My name is Edward. My son's name is Edward Jr. |
| 11/17/99 Dear
AbortionTV,
I just wanted to share my story with you in hopes others might read it and give their baby
a chance to live no matter what the medical circumstances. My son is now 20 months old.
When I became pregnant in 1997 my husband and I were thrilled. We started planning right
away for our precious new and very much wanted baby. However, our happiness was short
lived. When I was 16 weeks gestation my husband and I went for a routine ultra sound to
find out the sex of our baby. Instead we found out something was terribly wrong. The OBGYN
was very vague and referred us to a perinatologist. It was clearly obvious from our first
visit with him that our son was in great distress and not developing normally. He had an
extremely small ribcage for his body size. It measured less than 5 % while the rest of his
body measured 95%. The perinatologist told my husband and I that our son's (it was a boy!)
lungs would only grow to the size his ribcage
allowed. IF he made it through the pregnancy, which he doubted, he would only suffer and
be ventilator dependent his entire short lived life. He also had some skeletal anamolies.
His hands were clenched and fingers overlapping and his feet were turned outward. The
worst part was that he never moved. The perinatologist recommended terminating (in the
most clinical wording he could find), because he said our son had less than a 3% chance
for survival. Then he said "Go home for Christmas and think on it!" I couldn't
believe he could be so cold. Think on it? Like he was nothing...he was my precious son.
Still, I knew he would live. Call it motherly instinct, denial or the Lord's peace, but I
knew he would live. We refused abortion. 3 times he offered and after
my amnio came back normal the perinatologist informed us that he would no longer treat me
as his patient because he would not stand by and watch a baby be born to suffer. He
thought I consented to the amnio because I had decided to terminate, when in fact I only
consented because I wanted a diagnosis for my son so that he would get the best care
possible in the delivery room once he was born.
We went to a 2nd opinion who had the same findings as the first. They had no idea what was
wrong with my son. Chromosomes were all normal so that ruled out Trisomy. They suspected
he might have Osteogenesis Imperfecta (brittle bone disease) and even said he had broken
ribs and a broken shin bone. (that turned out to be false) The 2nd opinion sent us to his
colleague. The 3rd
perinatologist said our son's ribs were growing, but they were very small and he was at
very high risk. I saw the perinatologist every single week for an ultra sound and every
single week from 21 weeks on, he found something new wrong with him. This doctor said his
chances were 50-50. That gave us more hope. When I was 34 weeks, my son developed fetal
hydrops. He was in so much
distress from being unable to move that fluid began to collect under his skin. If he
wasn't delivered, he would die because the fluid would overtake his tiny organs in a
matter of days. So March 20th, 1998 at 1:30 PM Ethan Nicholas was welcomed into the world.
There was every specialist we could round up in my delivery room with me. The respiratory
therapist's told us they didn't have that many doctors when they delivered preemie twins.
Nicholas was intubated and in the NICU for 17 days. We brought him home and here he has
stayed ever since. He has a condition called Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita. It is a
non progressive muscular/skeletal disorder. The
older he gets, the better he gets. He has clubbed feet, which are correctable,
hand deformities, which are correctable, scoliosis, which is correctable, dislocated hips,
which are correctable. He has no lung problems whatsoever. He does have a very bell shaped
chest, but we just think it gives him character. =) He's a healthy beautiful, vibrant
little boy...and I thank my God above that he gave him to me. There couldn't be a prouder
mother on earth than I am. I love him with everything in me.
I am concerned about the 1st perinatologist though. How many people have aborted their
children because of something a doctor says? Thinking they have to be right because
they're a doctor! Doctors can be wrong! It is not up to us to take a life which God gives.
God sent my son to me. No doubts about it. I trusted Him and He blessed me with a son. Had
I listened to the doctors, my
son would be dead. My advice to women who have gotten bad news about their babies in
utero, get 2nd opinions, get 3rd opinions, get 4th opinions. Find every doctor you can
find and get them in the delivery room to save your child. Your children are worth it.
They deserve to live and they deserve the best life possible. My son is alive
because I listened to God and to my own heart! Please listen to your heart...
In Christ,
Kathryn |
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